coz i got time and she got freedom

hmm this blog is literally dying.
a feeble attempt to revive it.

was reading max's blog post about wether we do things to please others, or please ourselves. got me thinking about the friends episode when phoebe tries to find a non-selfish good deed, and realised that the question never got answered.

IS there a selfless good deed? when we do a good deed, do we do it to make ourselves feel good or make others feel good?

if we do it to make ourselves feel good, then it is 'selfish,' i.e. you do things to please yourself.
if we do it to make others feel good, then it returns to max's question: you try to please others.

so we're in a pickle here.

rkim